To overcome challenges, through Without comparing ourselves to others.

 

To overcome challenges, through Without comparing ourselves to others.



When we are babies, with our height and weight, as we grow, it becomes our speed and strength. Nowadays we compare our average with our peers like exam results, job results, etc. I have done it many times in my life. For example, I compared my final exam results with my best friend. In the exam result, while I stood 20th, she stood second in the class.
I felt very uncomfortable and avoided meeting her. I was depressed. At that time I was disappointed in myself. I was angry with myself. Compared to other such experiences, it is quite terrifying.

It made me realize that personal average is a very personal thing from person to person. If we can focus on that and work to build it, we can start making your dreams come true. This experience is the most valuable thing in my life and I learned a lot from it. It changes me and I make my mistakes. After that, we became best friends again. It changes my thinking and behavior. I started thinking positively and I never compare myself with others.

The faster you move to the next thing, the sooner you can start hitting things. By getting to the next one as fast as possible, you shrink the time you spend in those bad moments, leaving more time for the good ones.

I get this experience as a lesson for my future problems and similar incidents. With that, I never fell until today, because I stopped comparing myself to others.


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